A backyard wedding is not only beautiful, but since you don’t have to pay a facility rental fee, it can also fit into just about any budget. You can pull the whole thing off DIY, hire professionals, or a little bit of both. Here are a few tips to help you organize a stress-free, lighthearted backyard wedding.
Setting the Scene
Whether you want an elegant ambiance or carefree mood, a backyard wedding can have a multifaceted atmosphere. If you and your partner are looking to roll up your sleeves and put on your DIY hats, then you might consider:
Stringing outdoor lights in a pergola for the wedding altar, in a circle around the reception area or tent-style over the band and dancing area. Outdoor lights will add warmth and comfort during your romantic ceremony. Fairy lights in jars can make beautiful centerpieces for a late afternoon or early evening backyard wedding.
Look to DIY sites for ideas on wedding decor, and visit stores like Hobby Lobby or Joann where you can find all the supplies you need without spending a fortune. Look for online discounts or promotions to make your dollars go further.
Picking your own flowers from a local community farm or garden, which is less expensive than using a florist and adds a personal touch. It can be a fun outing for bridesmaid bonding.
Using candles in glass holders to light the ceremony aisle and as accent pieces for tables.
Exchanging vows under a tree, by a flower garden, or in front of another beautiful view. Use the beauty that is already in your backyard to create an inspiring backdrop for your “I dos.”
However, some duties are best left to the professionals. You may want to hire out for:
Tent rental: Eliminate concern about inclement weather on your big day.
Outdoor heater rental: These will keep all your guests toasty if the air gets crisp as the night wears on.
Landscaping: Give your lawn a little TLC before the nuptials.
Once you have the layout and decor planned, you can move onto one of the most important aspects of a wedding (at least for the guests): the reception.
Feeding the Guests
Depending on whether you have 50 or 250 guests, a backyard wedding can be intimate or opulent. When it comes to wining and dining your guests, consider a DIY approach by:
Using fruit as centerpieces, especially ones that have bright colors, including lemons, limes and oranges. You could also use seasonal produce, such as apples and pumpkins in the fall.
Enlisting the help of a family member or friend who likes to be known as the grillmaster to cook for the guests. You can keep it casual with burgers and hot dogs, or take it up a notch with grilled chicken, vegetables or fish.
Keeping self-serve drinks and alcohol in coolers made from metal bins, flower pots or planters or rustic crates.
Even the most zealous DIYers might find they simply cannot do everything to bring their backyard wedding vision to life. Consider bringing in professionals for:
Bartenders to mix cocktails and ensure your guests are drinking responsibly. As an added measure, be sure to keep safety in mind if you’re serving alcohol.
Linens, glassware, plates and silverware, especially if you are hosting more than 25 guests. At the end of the night, are you really going to have the energy to wash all of those dishes? Having professionals who unload, load and clean can save you lots of time and energy.
Portable restrooms, if your house is small and only has one bathroom, or the property is large and guests will have to walk quite a bit to get to the facilities.
Serving drinks and appetizers. If you’re envisioning an elegant garden party, then consider enlisting servers who will mingle with the guests while serving champagne and hors d'oeuvres.
There is such simple, rustic beauty in a backyard wedding. Not only do you have the charm of a summer sunset or a fall afternoon, but you also have the touching sentimentality of home. Even if the backyard is not yours and belongs to a friend or family member, there is still something special about sharing your vows in a familiar space made special with friends and family.
Alice Robertson began her career in the home organization industry as a professional house cleaner. After cleaning and organizing her clients’ homes for years, she decided to open her own home organization business. Over the years, she has built an impressive client list, helping to make spaces in homes and businesses more functional. She recently created tidyhome.info as a place to share the great cleaning and organizing advice she has developed over the years.